In the tradition of the perennial bestseller I'm OK, You're OK, noted author Brad Gooch offers single and coupled gay men a provocative, sophisticated, and inspirational guide that addresses the big issues of love, romance, and being alone.

Part memoir, part self-help, Finding the Boyfriend Within is a remarkably practical and helpful guide in the quest for self-discovery for the thousands of gay men who despair of ever being in a committed relationship. Filled with anecdotes, romantic advice, problem-solving suggestions, and humor—as well as wisdom from both the East and West—Finding the Boyfriend Within offers simple self-awareness exercises to help discover the respect, happiness, and love that come first, and most importantly, from within. Andrew Tobias author of The Best Little Boy in the World That even someone like Gooch would have boyfriend problems is, on one level, no surprise to anyone who's been around, and yet ceaselessly amazing. That he has actually done something about it, as detailed herein, is unusual -- and to those in search of center, possibly helpful as well.