When you love someone, how does it feel? And when you desire someone, how is it different? This book looks at the story of sex in committed couples. 'At precisely the same moment that you're being shocked by her, you're also acknowledging the validity of her ideas. Perel's ideas are like the chorus of a really good pop song - instantly familiar because they resonate deeply. It's all rather terrifying in its intuitiveness and its pure rightness'